They just occur at different times to different folks. The comms channels get so fuzzy often that there's a total blackout.
accept it or not this takes place when we expect it least. Take, as an example, next weekend when my better half and I had tiny spat over something unimportant. She claimed something that sort of hurt my feelings and I jumped right back at her. I believed that I might get home before her and make it then. What's the common factor between these 2 issues? Commitment. He's going to be sure to you by a commitment called Wedding . 2nd , he might be hurt from past relationship. This ignominy and fear stops him from giving a hundred percent to your relationship and thus he dares not make a pledge, for fear of repeat of history. You can make him think that commitment is all right as long as both are ready and committed to that purpose of a happy, lasting relationship. There are secrets to beat this fear of commitment. This may make you look independent and assured. Talking about it's the easiest way to expose the miscommunication and let the healing begin.
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